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Survival Secret #3: God Will Never Give You More Than You Can Handle

Part 3 of 6 Survival Secrets to Successfully Battling the Storm3

By: Elizabeth L. Creecy

"Cast your burden on the Lord, and he will sustain you; he will never permit the righteous to be moved."

 -Psalm 55:22 ESV

I hope everyone had a joyful Easter. What a beautiful day to reflect on the power of Jesus and the VICTORY He gave us through His selfless sacrifice.

We are continuing forward with this series, 6 Survival Secrets to Successfully Battling the Storm. Secret #1 is the promise that the Father will come and rescue you. He wants you to be with Him more than you do! Thank the Lord for the Father’s love and zeal towards us. Secret #2 is God will never abandon you nor forsake you! He is always with you even when you feel He’s not.

I cannot speak for you, but just those two secrets bring me so much comfort. Amid a storm, it can be incredibly easy to forget these truths and turn your attention to the storm instead of your Protector, Jesus Christ! Of course, God has more than six secrets to help you battle the storm. One thing that is so awesome about God is that there is so much wisdom, power, and truth in the Bible to comfort you.

Let's move to surviaval secret #3: God will not give you more than you can handle!

In 2012, the Christian hip-hop band, Group 1 Crew released a song called “He Said.” There are a few lyrics in this song that have always stuck out to me.

"So your life feels like it don't make sense And you think to yourself, "I'm a good person" So why do these things keep happening? Why you gotta deal with them?
You may be knocked down now But don't forget what He said, He said
"I won't give you more, more than you can take And I might let you bend, but I won't let you break
And No-o-o-o-o, I'll never ever let you go-o-o-o-o" Don't you forget what He said"

Those two highlighted lines brought me so much comfort when the Holy Spirit made them come alive to me. (To hear the song, please click on the link below the lyrics).

 God will not give you more than you can handle. He will stretch you, push you, and grow you, but He will never ever let you break! Wow. That’s awesome. God is always there with you (Deut. 31:6). Praise Jesus 🙌🏼!

Perhaps, as the song says, you feel like your life is not making sense with all the obstacles, challenges, and schemes in front of you. Maybe you’re wondering what is going on and where is God? It’s easy to get discouraged and feel like God has forsaken you, but those are lies from the devil because God’s Word says the opposite.

Our Father is so merciful. He PROMISES not to give you more than you can handle (1 Cor. 10:13). Again, God will not give you more than you can take. 

Sometimes it feels like Christians can quickly adopt the mindset of I am a believer. Bad things aren’t supposed to happen to me. I want an easy, obstacle-free life. But guess what? That’s chasing a fantasy. Everyone faces hardship. Everyone experiences suffering. 

No temptation has overtaken you except such as is common to man; but God is faithful, who will not allow you to be tempted beyond what you are able, but with the temptation will also make the way of escape, that you may be able to bear it (1 Corinthians 10:13 NKJV).

From this verse above, we know the following:

  • Temptation does not come from God (James 1:14-1:15).
  • Trouble does not come from God because God gives life and is the source of love and blessing.
  • Everyone faces temptation, so don’t feel or act like you have been singled out. 
  • There is no shame in being tempted. 
  • As a believer in Christ, you can resist all temptation because God will show you how to resist it. God will even help you resist the temptation by helping you. 

Temptation is not limited to the lust of the eyes or living through your flesh. The soul’s three enemies are summarized as the world, the flesh, and the devil in Christian theology. Therefore, the temptation may come in the form of a lie as a thought that you think is yours.

 For example, perhaps God is asking you to move out of your comfort zone and take a leap of faith. And let’s also say for this example you struggle with Fear of Poverty. Well, the principalities of darkness could either be inside of you or have trained you to think in a certain way. When you contemplate trusting God and being obedient to His command, you may be bombarded with thoughts such as, but not limited to: 

  • How will I pay my bills? 
  • I can’t do this. This is too scary. 
  • What if I fail? 
  • What if I can’t do it? 
  • God, I can’t do that. That doesn’t make sense. How will I pay my bills? This request can’t be from you! 
  • Or other catastrophizing and fear-filled thoughts

With those thoughts, you may notice tightness, extra energy, or jitters running through your chest, and it will feel uncomfortable. You might find yourself worrying about tomorrow, which is a sin, as Jesus tells us in Matthew 6. If you are a bit like me, maybe you want to run away and hide. I get it but understand all of that is not from God, but the devil.

Notice all of these thoughts come from not trusting God, but self. What does Fear do? Fear wants to control you and keep you from moving forward! Fear wants to stop your future! Isn’t that partially what Jesus warned us about in John 10:10? 

The thief does not come except to steal, and to kill, and to destroy. I have come that they may have life, and that they may have it more abundantly (John 10:10 NKJV).

As mentioned above, God does not give temptation or trouble. However, He will provide you with tests and commands. Of course, tests can be scary, especially if you fear failure or you struggle with perfectionism. But God tests you for your benefit. Again, everything God does is to promote life and develop your character to be more like Jesus. The tests God gives you help you see where you need to grow, and then He will help grow you in that area if you choose to agree with Him. Again, He respects free will. 

As for those commands, God gives to His body. Well, those are impossible to uphold for a reason. That is why we must have Jesus Christ. We need His grace, mercy, love, and hope. We need Jesus to help us successfully navigate the tests and commands. 

The only way we can do the hard things like tests and commands that God gives us is to do it in UNION with Him! Yes, that means it might not be on your timetable, but it will be a result you are grateful for! When you remain in union with God, you are able to handle anything!

Here’s the most important key! You must do it by remaining in God’s love and loving others. 

"I am the vine, you are the branches. He who abides in Me, and I in him, bears much fruit; for without Me you can do nothing (John 15:5 NKJV).

When you remain and abide in Him, God will help you! Here are some ways that God will help you resist temptation: 

  1. God will help you recognize the people and situations that give you trouble. If you aren’t sure, ask the Holy Spirit to bring to your memory those instances you missed. 
  2. God will help you run from anything that you know is wrong.
  3. He will help give you discernment to choose to do what is right and pleasing to Him.
  4. He will encourage you to pray to Him and give Him all your concerns and fears. Then He will encourage you when the time is right to step out in faith, but you will have to choose to trust Him.
  5. He will help bring people into your life who also love Him and offer support when you are tempted.
Run from anything that stimulates youthful lusts. Instead, pursue righteous living, faithfulness, love, and peace. Enjoy the companionship of those who call on the Lord with pure hearts (2 Timothy 2:22 NLT).

I do understand how difficult walking through storms can be. Maybe you’re like me thinking; I wish God didn’t believe I could handle so much. Suddenly, you realize how awesome it is. He trusts you to SUCCESSFULLY and VICTORIOUSLY go through storms with Jesus. The issue is the devil has conditioned our human brains to focus on the storm and not the Father’s glory. I fall into this trap too. 

It’s like what Paul says in Romans 5:

We can rejoice, too, when we run into problems and trials, for we know that they help us develop endurance. And endurance develops strength of character, and character strengthens our confident hope of salvation (Romans 5:3-4 NLT).

Paul is telling you that perseverance can develop godly character if you allow it. God wants to use your trial to glorify Himself. He is hoping under the test you will look to Him to work out His purpose through every obstacle and problem you have. The cool thing is when you look to God to do His will – God will give you, His endurance. Paul says in 2 Corinthians 12:9 that Jesus’ grace is sufficient for you, for your power is made perfect in weakness. When you get God’s seal of approval, you are filled with supernatural peace, hope, and joy. Jesus is always ready to give you, His yoke. The load will be more manageable. However, don’t fool yourself. It’s easy to be filled with God’s peace, joy, and hope and habitually keep reaching to retake all of the load. That’s okay. You’re walking things out. Just keep repenting and asking for the Holy Spirit’s help. You have to keep your eye on Jesus, not the problem (Hebrew 12:2; John 16:33). It’s precisely what Paul means when he says, If God is for you who could be against you (Romans 8:31). If that verse is not real for you yet, please ask the Holy Spirit to help it become real for you! You have to have a revelation on this stuff, which will be between you and the Father. 

 

PRAYER: Father God, Thank You for sacrificing Your only Son so that I could live in your freedom. I come to You today asking for Your help and strength. Please help me to see where I make life harder for myself. Please show me where I am glorifying the enemy in my life. Highlight all the areas in my life where I may be causing trouble or opening myself to temptation. Father, if You are testing me and I am failing – help me to see where I am failing. Father, I want to do Your will for my life. Somedays, it seems so scary and terrifying. Nonetheless, it’s what I want. Please help me to walk boldly, courageously, and fearlessly towards Your will for my life. Always remind me that You are with me and love me. Thank You for Your Word and the power of the Holy Spirit. In Jesus’ name, Amen.